I’m scared to grow up. what if I end up alone. what if my career choice plummets. what if all my friends are happily employed and in relationships. what if no one wants me.
I don’t want to grow up.
i think about this almost everyday.
I think about this every single day
You don’t have to grow up. You might have to have a small amount of maturity, but I know plenty of people who are older and still act like kids. It’s definitely not a compulsory part of getting older, growing up.
If you end up alone - you’ll still experience amazing relationships and friendships and you might even find that you like your own company and your own freedom.
If your career choice plummets, then perhaps it was never meant to be for you in the first place. It gives you the chance to try something new and different. Explore.
If all your friends are happily employed and in relationships, be happy for them. But there’s two sides to every story. They might be jealous of the fact that you’re not trapped in a relationship or job you can’t get out of. That you have the freedom to do as you want to. That you’re not dependent on another person nor have anyone depend on you.
If no one wants you, then they’re not worth having in your life anyway.
Don’t let your fears get the better of you. Things always have two sides - try and find the positives in life. View everything as an opportunity and seize it.